Daisho Con

God I just can't stand it anymore. I know I need to move out but I can't and I know it. I'm tired of dealing with my mom now. All she does is bitch and complain and annoy the hell out me. God and it seems like all she does is bitch about her soar F-ing leg and she won't even see a doctor when my dad has good insurance. Yeah even I am covered by Blue Cross which is offered by the Federal Government which just so happens to be where my dad works. And she seems to love to attack anime conventions. Yes I know I failed 3 classes but I tried and she just can't get that. I don't even think she cares anymore because she never helped me try to get any scholarships. She didn't think i would get any of them so she made it worthless to even try. If she has no faith in me then I feel I need to lack the faith in her now.

Man... that, well, sucks ass.

sks wrote:Then move out, like you said. Use your energy (or anger) on something constructive.

I also said I want to but I can't. Remember we are under what is called Recession.

Mothers get that way. They want the kids out of the house and they'll use any excuse they can get to get them out. Once you leave she'll do a 180...probably a 540 if you're the last one and she gets empty-nest syndrome.

Langland wrote:

sks wrote:Then move out, like you said. Use your energy (or anger) on something constructive.

I also said I want to but I can't. Remember we are under what is called Recession.

Can't is a strong word. Yes we are in a recession, but really moving out is NEVER completely out of the question. It might put on some financial strain, but that doesn't mean you CAN'T.

Not to sound too harsh or anything, but you can only complain about so many things. Choose one. Complain about your mother who you can't stand currently, or complain about how hard it is to afford an apartment. My roommate is in a very similar situation, she can't STAND her mother - trust me, I've seen it put the two of them in the same room for over a minute and they'll be at each other's throats. However, despite the fact that my roommate has no job she is still getting out of the house on her own volition despite the 'recession'.

Your situations isn't favorable, don't get me wrong but right now you're choosing to complain about it instead of doing something about it. If all you want to do is complain about your situation then that's fine, continue and I misunderstood the purpose of this thread. But seriously, you are never POWERLESS in a situation, however bad the specifics may be there is always something that can be done.

Kara kuro wrote:

Langland wrote:

sks wrote:Then move out, like you said. Use your energy (or anger) on something constructive.

I also said I want to but I can't. Remember we are under what is called Recession.

Can't is a strong word. Yes we are in a recession, but really moving out is NEVER completely out of the question. It might put on some financial strain, but that doesn't mean you CAN'T.

Not to sound too harsh or anything, but you can only complain about so many things. Choose one. Complain about your mother who you can't stand currently, or complain about how hard it is to afford an apartment. My roommate is in a very similar situation, she can't STAND her mother - trust me, I've seen it put the two of them in the same room for over a minute and they'll be at each other's throats. However, despite the fact that my roommate has no job she is still getting out of the house on her own volition despite the 'recession'.

Your situations isn't favorable, don't get me wrong but right now you're choosing to complain about it instead of doing something about it. If all you want to do is complain about your situation then that's fine, continue and I misunderstood the purpose of this thread. But seriously, you are never POWERLESS in a situation, however bad the specifics may be there is always something that can be done.

You live under someone elses roof. you feed off someone elses food. you rely on someone elses income. Yet you complain about how uncomfortable you are with the living situation. This is a recession witch makes it more tough on the people supporting you. You complain about needing to move then make excuses as to why you cant. You also complain about how you arent having faith in her but all I see is you expecting even more help from her. I am making it work although barely on a 7 dollar an hour job getting only about 10 hours a week and Donating plasma to make rent. I am making it work on the bare minimum. Stop your complaining and do it.

I was really pissed off when i made this thread. It was my way of venting. When you can have a pissing and moaning section, expect to see complaints. I saw Deadsid here complaining about a crap load of stuff. I'm a lot better now. I was just pissed off that my mom crossed a line that she should not have crossed. She even knows when she crosses a line with me. Also to point out, my mom barely feeds me. She gets food from the Catholic School she teaches and that's gone most of the time because I work everyday.

I am paying my own gas expenses to get my education. In fact I told her my education is my business and she yet thinks it's hers which it's not because she isn't the one learning the accounting stuff. Also She doesn't really heat up the house in the winter or cool it down in the summer either. I'm not relying on her income. Everyone in my house took a hit.

I don't care if I made my situation worse, I am just trying to justify why I made this thread. I don't care if it was pointless but the way i see it, a lot of threads here are pointless in some way. So unless I've missed something, my thread did fit the criteria.

I am much better so whatever.

Like I said, if you made the thread to rant, then rant away. If that was the only purpose then I'm in means telling you not to rant if you makes you feel better. However, I just wanted to make sure you realized that rarely ever is anything impossible, it is only highly improbable or ill-suited to a person at a given time.

The fact is we tried to encourage you/give you advice and you made excuses. That's rude. Truth be told It's why I can't stand several people. By making this topic you ask for advice. By denying said advice without explanation you are insulting us. And You aren't paying your expenses, live with what you have. Learn that you have life better then 90% of the planet's population and have no reason to whine about your living conditions. Learn that life is not nice, fair, or easy. Learn that maintaining your self control is always more important. It doesn't matter who crosses what line, it's your responsibility to stand above said adversity.

Guys, this is the pissing and moaning section. In his post Langland didn't ask for any advice, he's just complaining about his situation. Calm down.

i hate to budge on your self-rightous rant guys but sometimes it isn't that simple. Langland has a point. Unless you already have a job... or know someone who has a job for you... your kind of stuck in your living situation. And i also know how much many of you complain about your living situations when a lot of your expenses are provided for you... your all being a little hypocritical... you were not giving advice you were harping on him

Much more here and we may have to move this to the debate forum...ok sorry....bad joke........

To be honest though, He has a job. And the point is that he didn't give a reason beyond The economy sucks. Which in some ways makes it easier for those who do have jobs, landlords are more likely to haggle, schools need tuition more, student loans are still given etc. In all honest I'm mostly making due for myself at the moment. I pay for my school, most of my bills, and my food. All I don't pay is whatever help my parents can give on my rent and I feel bad taking that. My point is he is receiving as much as I am and complaining while not doing anything about it. it bothers me when people complain but are unwilling to do anything.

My job is also just a seasonal job and I also get jipped out of unemployment because UW madison believes part time work doesn't qualify. So with the money i do make, it pretty much can only get mme far so much and then I'm on my own. Also my job could be shut down next year being UW Madison decided Sheep Dairy research is a waste of time.